Ben Gordon is a cutie!

@ let keep it real...Wow you must really HATE women who wear weaves...lol that sh*t is crazy it is not that serious! Do you have a Weave Phobia? Grown women can wear their hair anyway they choose. Did someone with a weave beat you up or something? There are women who wear weave one week, and their real hair the next. Some wear it all the time, and who cares? Maybe you need a weave to protect your brain from letting all that "Craziness" out!!LMAO

Hey hair is hair when you get old and die it falls out away. :) I love being able to try different hair styles it's fun. I get bored fast with the same old hair style

I'm a beautiful 31 year old african-american female who recently started wearing her own hair , I started wearing extensions because when I first started recieving relaxers i didn't know that I wasn't suppose to get in pool after getting a relaxer and my hair started coming out , I learned my lesson from that , So started wearing extensions because I was self conscious , I wasn't necessarily worried about what a man would think ( I'm married to a wonderful man) who wasn't neccessarily turned off by me wearing extensions , To me it's how YOU feel about yourself ...To each it's own........besides I'm the one thats PAYING for the salon visit.

Let's keep it real - you have way too much time on your hands!!

"Who cares what they think? That's the problem with so many pitiful black women now. constantly worrying about black men and not repsecting themselves or what they want." What a black man thinks of me is highly important. Who cares what you think! If my man has a preference I am going to do what pleases him anything to make him happy. He pleases me all the time.

Who cares what they think? That's the problem with so many pitiful black women now. constantly worrying about black men and not repsecting themselves or what they want. To hell with them and their opinions of black women. Too bad the black media is 20 years behind on this antiquated way of thinking. Screw what they think!!!

Well I don't why someone would'nt want someone else to wear a weave. I mean it's not like we have beautiful hair like our caucasian counterparts. A lot of sisters are not blessed with long hair, even if it's pretty. As long as the weave is fried, dyed, and laid to the side like it ought to be it should be okay. Then some sisters have to commit to perms the rest of their lives just to get long hair. One sad truth is if you want long pretty hair you have to be mixed with some other culture. Because back when blacks were slaves, we did'nt get the nutrition needed for healthy hair anyway.

I guess, we now know what some of these black men are thinking when it comes to we black women and our hair (smile) It's refreshing that some of them admit that they have preferences in hair textures, lengths and authenticity, the same as we too, as black women, have our preferences. However, sometimes those preferences don't show up in the people we ultimately choose as life partners.

And this brotha was fine.. ignores her and goes Excuse me Ms have I seen you before you look familiar....I smile and tell um no i don't think so and ignore him because I don't talk to strangers...AND THIS desperate weave wearing CHICK goes um I think I know you....He goes No you don't not with that mop on your head....and everyone in the train goes...IT MUST HAVE BEEN THE WEAVE. ..LOL.

...I get back to her and she goes...your hair looks great tooo who doesn't and how do you keep it up...I go welll i go here....and just wrap and roll..She takes the card and go I know her my um girlfriend goes there...I am thinking..lmao...you need to go too sweetie...So this fine brother is watching us talk...lmao....and goes...

Let me tell you a story....So, like three weeks ago while on the train I saw this black women who had a hotmess of a weave sewn in her hair...I had to inspect to make sure my eyes weren't playing tricks on me....so I TOOK down my sun glasses just to make sure I was seeing things....So she gives me this look like what are you staring at....to break the ice...i lie and gooo .."Where do you get your hair done it looks great?"...She get's all happy and goes....blah,blah,blah and it cost 500 dollars....I turned around to laugh...

I would have to say that grown women should do what they want with their hair b/c when it comes down to it, it is more about self-esteem than anything else. If a woman looks in the mirror and feels comfortable in her own skin, then it should not matter whether she wears her hair natural or adds extensions. Hair should be clean, neat and maintained regardless of whether it is real or not. As for the black men that want to run their fingers through hair, let me give you something to think about: your woman has long, beautiful hair and it is hers from the root to the ends. Then she gets sick and loses her hair due to treatment. What do you do? So when do men start to realize what qualities in a good woman are more important?

ESSENCE you could have left what they typed it didn't brother me I though it was funny. I mean MY frist lady Michelle Obama(WHO DOESN'T WEAR A WEAVE) would be PROUD of the uncouth Ghetto crazy behavior of OLD A S Supposed to be GROWN women. showcase how pathetic these wig/trackies are AND anybody that doesn't agree with alll that weave and they go spit fire while looking STUPID in the process. Toooo bad! The truth hurts doesn't it?Oh well get over it!

Walk into any pharmacy ARE ASIAN beauty supply store and you'll weave everywhere and black women eat that s hit up just to net a man who doesn't want them. You will be by yourself if you keep that weave in your hair.